"At first reading, these passages
might seem to support spanking. But this is not the only way to interpret
them. The term rod is used throughout the Bible in connection with the
sheperd's staff: "Your rod and your staff, they comfort me" (Psalms 23:4).
The shepherd's staff is, in fact, used to guide wandering sheep along the
right path, not to hit sheep who stray. So a compassionate reader could
interpret the Bible as saying that parents must lead and guide their children
but not harm them. This teaching is developed beautifully in the book A
Shepherd Looks at Psalm, 23, by Philip Keller. Finally, note that
references to the "rod" are found primarily in the Old Testament.
In the New Testament, Christ preaches compassion, love, and understanding,
as does Paul. We would hope that all parents, hearing teachers warn
about sparing the rod remember Paul's words in 1 Corinthians: 'Shall I
come to you with a rod, or in love and the spirit of gentleness?'"
For the entire article about Christian parenting, please
go to the Mothering
Magazine site.